.just no regrets.

Someone once told me that if we want what's best in life, we need to look forward and plan for the future. I never knew what he meant till he's gone.

We all struggle in life, and sometimes we look at our life and think whether all these struggles are worth the fight, whether they are worth the time. We tend to forget the future we want to forge and remember the present we are struggling so hard.

And sometimes we give up for the comfort of the present, to look into the uncertainty of the past. People are more simple than we all presume, people are more reward oriented than we all want to believe.

Alan Cohen once said "It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power."

True, there are some who step up in this game of life and work for what they want, wait for what they dream. And in the end, its all the same, those who work for it will think back, was it worth the sacrifice? The loss of youth, the loss of time.

There are no right or wrong in this issue, just what we've become.

p/s: dad, happy birthday.
p/s/s: sometimes i worry about Malaysians... read it here by pinkpau (su ann).